This week, I’ve been working on a really cool project. I don’t want to give too much away, because I can’t wait to share it with you in full, but essentially, I’ve been writing an article about this totally kick-butt style entrepreneur who got her start as a fashion blogger five years ago, when she was a freshman in college. This woman is super cool and so inspiring, and after getting the chance to interview her last week, I’ve been reading through her blog archives for research. She’s totally gorgeous and effortlessly fab, and while she got her start taking outfit photos in the dim lighting of her dorm room, the pictures on her site now are professional and stylized. There were moments during this process that I had to remind myself to keep my journalist hat on so that I didn’t swap in my blogger hat and start getting down on myself.
Here’s a Friday confession for you, friends (and you’ve probably heard it from plenty of other bloggers, but it’s my turn): this whole blogging thing feels really hard sometimes. No, I don’t mean solving-quadratic-equations hard or curing-cancer hard — the stakes aren’t that high, of course. It’s difficult in that I want to continuously put myself, my thoughts, and my experiences out there in new and fresh ways, and I don’t always know if my approach is the right one.
I’m not a fashion blogger, but I still wish I could fill this site with photos of me looking casually stylish, going about my daily life with a cool bag on my arm and the perfect looking-past-the-camera pose. I constantly wish I had more original images to use here, or that I had it in the budget right now to do an awesome layout redesign. Now that this amazing blogging journey has started, I want to be able to own my blogger status by doing things that other, apparently more fabulous bloggers do. With work and life and relationships and money, though, it’s not that simple! Building this blog — along with my writing career — is really about taking one step at a time, but if it seems that I’m taking those baby steps patiently, then I guess I’m just a really good actress : )
What I’ve learned over the last few months, though, is that launching new projects and chasing your dreams is largely about having insecurities, giving yourself just a little bit of time to sit with them and then basically saying to yourself, “Get over it. Do it, anyway.” Over the last year or so, I feel really lucky to have stumbled upon the stories of other women who have gone out on their own and risen above their insecurities. I love listening to them share their experiences, especially knowing how successful they’ve become! For anyone looking to make a major life change (whether or not you plan to share it so openly on social media!), I would say this is key. Find people who are out there in the world living the kind of life you want to live. Take comfort in the fact that they didn’t always feel like they were the best at what they do. Stalk their Instagram feed, because chances are, there’s a great story of highs and lows right there for you to see.
One of my personal inspirations has been Ashley Lemieux, the founder of The Shine Project (if you’ve been reading the blog for a while, you know this organization well!). She’s honest and authentic and silly and creative and the ultimate jump-in-with-both-feet entrepreneur. She’s also a lipstick lover like me, which I dig.
Luckily for all of us, Ashley recently wrote How to Start Anything: A Quick Guide to Jumpstarting Your Dreams. I’m super excited to be involved with sharing this eBook and all of the other awesome things Ashely is cooking up right now (wait ’til you see what comes next!). The book is available for FREE right now at this link, and I’d love for you to check it out so you can get a sense of the amazing “make it happen” philosophy that has inspired me so much over the last few months, especially when I’ve been feeling secure.
…and once you’ve fallen even further in love with Ashley and basically everything she does (you will, I promise), don’t forget to enter this month’s giveaway! The prize just happens to be a pair of earrings from The Shine Project. All you have to do to enter is comment on my last post. I’ll be drawing the winner on Monday 5/1, so get those entries in ASAP!
Happy weekending! xo